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Ceremony of a Two-Year-Old



As I've stated before, I don't get out of the house very often during the day with the littles, and before I do, I always have to have a plan of how I'm going to keep the two of them in tow at each of our various stops.  I usually end up deciding it's best to wait for Daddy to get home so I have help.  But, today I needed to visit the post office to mail packages so I went ahead and tossed a couple of other errands into the mix.  To keep the bigger little good, there was the promise of a new toy at our final destination--the world's greatest toy store.

The littles keep a piggy bank where Daddy and I toss our spare change.  It was once solely Lxkas's piggy, but it's only fair that he share now that he has a little sister.  Usually, by the end of two months there will be well over $10 in there, and that's when it's time to visit the Coin Star machine in our Neighborhood Market so he and sissy can cash out for a new something special.  That something special is usually a toy from the Thomas and Friends franchise for Lxkas and something Clara can chew on.  And yes, Lxkas's take of the loot is usually a bit more than Clara's, but her needs in that department aren't yet as great as his, so for now I think we're okay.  Today was no different.  

Lxkas proudly carried his cup of change into the store while I carried Clara.  He didn't even threaten to run away, which was a relief because as we walked I kept envisioning the nightmare scenario where I'm trying to pick pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters off the floor while I'm juggling a baby in one arm and trying to catch a 2-year-old with the other.  I would be one arm short and the whole scene would be quite embarrassing. 

When the Coin Star finished counting we had $13.84.  I added $4 in cash that was in his piggy and their total was just under $18.

Upon our arrival at the toy store  he was antsy to get out of the car and he knew right where to go.  In this particular aisle there is a large train table set up with several examples of Thomas's friends who have what looks like miles of track to explore on.  In fact, we got the idea for Lxkas's much smaller train table from this one.  His train table was a big hit when he received it on his 2nd birthday last month.  However, as of late it's been a bit disheveled and neglected with track strewn where ever and "choo-choos" (as he calls them, though he's starting to call them engines) that have wandered far from home to different parts of the living room.

He was so excited about adding to his collection that he didn't allow Bash (the new engine's name) to be bagged at check-out, and as soon as I had snapped him in to his car seat he was tearing through the packaging while I fastened Clara.  When we walked into the house he saw his train table wasn't good enough to welcome its newest member so he directed me in helping him put his track back together and collect all the engines we could find.  

Once again the train table, the track and the engines are as exciting as they were the day he first received them.  The train table sits immaculate with engines lined up and awaiting their next adventure with the bigger of the littles--until the coming weeks when one by one they slowly adventure away to be forgotten under a couch or down a vent.  He will play with them, but never will they be this exciting again.

Until, in a couple of months, when I'm almost positive a new engine will join the ranks and they will all get together for another welcoming party and to be special again.  





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In Her Own Time


Today someone's facebook post was a video of their baby boy sitting up with minimal support.  As I recall, her baby is about a month younger than Clara.  It made me realize how quickly Clara is already falling behind typical children developmentally.  And actually, I started realizing it last Friday when Clara's provider was here finishing up her visit and prescribed, "Tummy time, tummy time, lots and lots of tummy time."  I could see for the first time that she really meant it.  And I started realizing it after her visit when I scrolled through  my phone for photos dated September of 2011, when Lxkas was 4 months old.  He held his head high and supported his body with his back.

Clara still thinks she's a newborn.

I didn't allow the video to ruin my mood or even my moment.  It actually made me more accepting.  When Clara was born I had hope that she was going to be the exception to all children with Down syndrome; she wouldn't be delayed.  That hope slipped away today and I'm okay.

The mother of the baby in the video has a right to be proud of her little guy.  He's doing great and is developing ahead of his peers, for sure.

I told Clara a little bit ago that she needed to start taking her exercises seriously.  I told her it was time to stop being a newborn.  She just smiled at me and started her adorable cooing.

She can be a newborn as long as she likes.

My baby girl isn't going to keep pace with all the other babies out there her age, or even younger.  She'll develop when she sees fit.  At least she's damn cute doing it her own way.

I'm so proud of my little Clara.  She's being all she wants to be in her own time.

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